How to Prepare Your Teen for Your Second Marriage

They said that the second time lucky ! However , the story for your teenager . If you open your mind to new and different , your child may still be dealing with transition issues . With the help of the experts , this is how you will know a happy family on a sailing second marriage .

 

One study suggests that half of the 
population the boy to their parents head for a splitville by the age of 16 .Relationship Councillor , Sauleha Sheikh said : " Most couples who marry are in their early or late 30s and 40s with young children . Unlike the adult , the young find it extremely difficult for the fact that their mother or father to other people , if not their parent biological . has responsibility for the child and at the time and did not find it difficult to get new parents , but also suffer emotional turmoil . "A 37 - year - old marketing expert , Snigdha Mehta through a difficult time after the demise of her husband . Dealing with his 13 - year career . She talked about her depression , " I will be waiting for the time when my children will grow and I will explain to him why I want to be . Yet when I sit with him to explain the situation , I realized that even if he understand me because I live alone , a new father is not something she was ready for . months before they can to go . "Marriage counselors come to the conclusion that a remarriage issues such as late people in the child 's life difficult for them . They also started their parents are responsible for their emotional problems such as ." I recently treated a 14 - year - old boy brought by his parents . , The child 's behavior changes - it is not good because it has a lot of weight and wetting her bed at night . parent can not figure out what led to this problem . later I tell the children , I see that it sorely missing his mother . divorce her husband and other men . has the child for at least two weeks before starting to improve , " said marriage counselor , Mimrah Ansari .Most parents in this difficult situation faced think it is best to talk openly with the children and help them to accept the changes . Counselors are many ways to help children get the new parents whole heartedly and with less emotional trauma :One . According to their biological parents : Do not protect your child meet their biological parents in the event of a divorce . Although the situation of you and your ex , who is a big mistake . It is best to not deprive your child of their parent biological . Let them spend time with them . It will help for the child - recommend Ansari .2 . Cover with the new parents : bond specific needs of your spouse and your children is very important . Make sure that they spend time together and know each other well .

3 . Form his own impressions : Do not try to make your child 's imagination and creative influence . They make you think - spouses can find themselves . Ask her what she thought of the new people , but do not try and change the paradigm . Also tell your child that the parent is a perfect mother or father for him or her . Maybe it will not go through with the child and he or she may react different to it . Instead , let him or her for their own ideas . Ask your child from time to time about their new parents want and try to understand their needs .4 . Stepparent this book :one . If you are clueless about what to talk to you - the maintenance of the child and want to save the situation from getting uncomfortable , Sheikh said : " Given the right with you . If not bombard them questions about the content and the research . away and a friend that will care and love . "b . Get the children wholeheartedly : Get the child is all too easy to think , so much so that it will be easier for him to forgive . The best way to do this is to use the time with the children . Go out , play video games , a lunch or a Sunday or a movie together .